Sometimes the butt kissing becomes too much for grandparents. It's understandable for grandparents to find themselves at their wit's end when it comes to dealing with the parents' demands.
It would be sooo much easier to throw in the towel. sometimes 'esaier' isn't always better, afterall, all good things are acquired with hard work. Ask yourself , is it in the grandchild's best interest to remain in their life? If the answer is yes, then do whatever it takes to