Forgive
It does us no good to hold onto anger instead of affecting those that anger us we poison ourselves, so let it go. Start taking care of yourself by moving on to things that you can control, like yourself. Please know that other people's actions are a result of all that they know. In other words they don't know how to behave differently. Self-care is our opnly option. Focus on remaining committed to a grandchild whether you are able to physically able to see them or not. No gr
FIND THEM
It's been over 20 years since this organization began and by now those grandchildren have reached adulthood. If you as a...
Do Your Grandkids Call You Something Besides GRANDMA AND GRANDPA?
by Susan Hoffman Whether you see them frequently, rarely or once they become adults, kids have their own frame of referrence when it...
Brainwashing
The grandmother first lost her daughter when she was killed by a drunk driver, then she lost her grandchildren when the divorced dad...
Should I Just Walk Away?
Difficult people generally wind up alone, embattled, and bitter. They create too much stress, and one by one, everyone in their lives...
DO I HAVE TO PUT UP WITH IT?
When you can't change a situation...either put up with it or walk away. When we can't change a situation and instead adapt do we end up...
Can I Change The Situation:part 2
Difficult people aren't going to change just to make you feel better. The worst chance of getting someone else to change occurs when...
Can I Change The Situation?
Not all difficult people are beyond change, even though they are stubborn and stuck in their behavior. But there's a cardinal rule here...


A Humanitarian Vacation Pulls The Community Together By Susan Hoffman
Last year Jillian Savoy with her parents, Joe and Jacque, who are both retired, booked their upcoming river cruise vacation where they...
So Glad Holidays Are Over
Dear Susan, All I can say is I’m glad the holidays are over. I have not seen my grandson since my daughter severed all family ties three...





