Plug Along
Sometimes it just takes longer to breakthrough the barriers. The parents who are keeping the grandkids from us can hold the the grudge it seems like forever, then by the time they begin to let the anger go, the guilt takes over and by then they are too embarrassed to finally relent. If grandparents understand then they can let go of expectations and just be patient as the parents slowly come around and allow tidbits of access. I'll take the crumbs any day!